August 12

National Middle Child Day

Celebrate National Middle Child Day with your siblings - show them extra love and attention to make their day extra special!

Yearly Date

August 12

Observed in

United States

Introduction

Celebrate National Middle Child Day on August 12 by recognizing the unique and special place that middle children hold in their families! This day was created to honor all of those “forgotten” middle children who may not get as much attention as their siblings. But don't forget, these kids are often creative problem solvers and have a knack for getting along with everyone! So let's show our love to all the middle children out there.

National Middle Child Day Timeline

1950s

The "Middle Child Syndrome"

The term "middle child syndrome" appears in psychological literature, detailing perceived disadvantages experienced by middle-born children.

1986

National Middle Child Day Created

Elizabeth Walker, a journalist from South Carolina, established National Middle Child Day to celebrate and recognize middle children.

1991

Book Highlights Middle Child Strengths

"The Secret Power of Middle Children" by Lynn Perlman and Dr. Catherine Salmon is published, highlighting the positive aspects and strengths of middle children.

2001

Birth Order Studies Challenge Stereotypes

Psychological studies challenge the birth-order stereotypes, indicating that middle children are well-adjusted, independent and empathetic.

2010

Middle Child's Day Reaches Wider Audience

With the rise of social media, awareness and celebration of National Middle Child Day spreads, reaching a global audience.

How to Celebrate National Middle Child Day

1 Throw a Middle Child Party

Organize a party with all the middle children in your family, friends, or neighbourhood and make it special for all the middle kids. Decorate with streamers, balloons, and other age-appropriate decorations.

2 Present a Gift

Surprise your middle child with something special that only they will get. Think about their interests and come up with a unique present that is just for them.

3 Visit a Museum

Take your middle child on a trip to an age appropriate museum such as an art gallery, history museum, or science museum. Let them explore and give them the attention they deserve.

4 Go on an Adventure

Plan an adventure that's specific to the middle child's interests. Take them camping, fishing, or rock climbing—whatever will make their day special.

5 Make a Special Meal

Cook up a meal that is specifically tailored to your middle child's tastes. Show them how much you care by taking the time to make something special.

Why We Love National Middle Child Day

Middle children have unique personalities

Middle children often possess qualities that set them apart from their siblings. They can be independent and creative, yet supportive and understanding. Their diverse personalities make it easy to connect with people, particularly since they are usually good at negotiating and finding the common ground between two opposing parties.

Middle children tend to be peacekeepers

Middle children are usually the most likely to mediate disagreements between their siblings. This trait is incredibly valuable, as it not only keeps the family dynamic balanced but also calms hostilities between those involved in a conflict.

Middle children are great problem solvers

Since middle children don't typically enjoy being the center of attention, they naturally learn how to become great problem solvers. Over time, they develop skills such as critical thinking, resourcefulness, and ingenuity which allows them to think outside the box when handling difficult situations.